Sunday, September 7, 2008

Visiting Teaching

I am currently serving as the 2nd Counselor in the Relief Society Presidency. I NEVER thought in a million years I would have this calling. Matter of fact when the Bishop extended the calling to me my response was, "Are you kidding me?" Yeah--he wasn't. I will have to say that I really do love my calling. I love the sisters that I work with--especially the President--Sandy. She is one amazing woman! Anyways--we went to a Stake Leadership Training last October and these 3 women came from our stake and told us what Visiting Teaching meant to them. We were so impressed as a R.S. Pres. that we invited them to come and share their message with our ward today.

These 3 sisters have either come from abusive--both physically and sexually--families, have either been disfellowshiped or excommunicated, been into drinking, and or drugs, and struggled with same sex relations. But each one of them came back to the Church because of a visiting teacher. One of them wrote a beautiful song that compared herself to the Prodigals Son and they sang it for us today. I was (just like when I heard them the first time) moved to tears--big surprise. They all had such amazing stories and it really touched me as to how important visiting teaching is. I am really going to try and do better (I know, I know--I am in the Presidency for heck sake but I still struggle). I really need to make it more of a priority in my life to visit my ladies. Wish me luck--I need it!!

11 comments:

Whitney R said...

That's great your in the RS Presidency! I would be scared to death for that calling. I bet you are doing a wonderful job.

Visiting teaching is hard. Harder when you have a partner that hates it. But I just got reassigned to a girl who had the same problem. So we both are really trying!

Brittany Marie said...

I have no problem giving the lesson every time, but I can NOT call people to set up appointments. Is that weird? I just hate calling people I guess.

Shaunab said...

I can totally see you in the RS Presidency. You are one of the most compassionate people I know and I am sure you do a fabulous job. Unfortuantley, VT is not the easiest thing for me to do. I'm going to try and do better though.

Kristina P. said...

I am a HORRIBLE visiting teacher. To be honest, I just forget. I will take the little slip of paper to work with me, but that still doesn't remind me. I really need to do better.

Jillene said...

Yeah--you would think that with the calling I have I would be inspired--not so much. By the time I realize--the month is usually over. I am the "bad apple" of the Presidency I guess.

Shauna-
Thanks for that! I never would have thought of myself as compassionate!

Brittnay-
I HATE to call people too!! I have this weird fear thing that inhibits me from dialing the number--crazy!

Bobie said...

Well I don't know girlfriend... YOu can't take all the blame for not going. What the HECK is wrong with your partner? She sounds like a real dweeb.

Jillene said...

Ummmm....my partner has 7 children, a full-time job and is the Young Women's President. She's not a dweeb--she's BUSY!!

Unknown said...

I have struggled with this forever. If I am not pulled together or don't have a treat I just talk myself out of going! I am trying much harder and have great women I visit. I go by myself- so much easier, but still hard. I just plain forget.

Kristen said...

I am sorry that I missed their stories, just reading the words of the song it sounded like it was really good.

*MARY* said...

I'm taking this as my final sign (I've been seeing them all week) to go VTing. I don't think I've been since it was acceptable to bring candy canes as treats.

{Rebecca Fellows} said...

Thanks for your message about V.T. This is something I struggle with as well. Probably always will. I was sorry I missed the R.S. program. Thanks for caring about us sisters!