Tuesday, February 23, 2010

What's Next?

I have been a little, by by little I mean A LOT, stressed lately. Things on top of things on top of things just seem to keep happening. My face, mostly my chin, is paying the price for all of the stress. It's really not a good thing. I keep wondering when it will all end but maybe this is just my load to bear right now. Whatever. I need my parents to come home--NOW. Technically they will be back on Friday. Who knew that a month could last so long? Who knew that I would miss them this much? Not me. I never want them to stay gone this long again--NEVER. That is the first thing that is stressing me out.

Next came having to cook a dinner for about 45 people that I was technically not in charge of. That is a little stressful and a lot demanding and it wore me out. Good thing I had Tina to help me.

Next came the Facebook status of one of my first cousins saying "Is it too early to call and find out about my Dad?" That gave me a heart attack. What is wrong with my Uncle? I can't take this. I finally find out that he fell asleep at the wheel and rolled his truck. It took them 30 minutes to get him out. He had to be flown to the hospital. He split the back of his head open, they had to insert a shunt in his head to drain the fluid/blood, he has many lacerations all over his head, has a neck fracture, dislocated his shoulder and has bruises and swelling. It could have been worse. We feel very blessed. I had to call and tell my Dad. That was really hard. He was so upset and offered to come home early. But thanks to many prayers my Uncle was able to come home. He has to wear a neck brace for 6 weeks to heal the neck fracture and he has to take it really easy. We are so blessed.

Finally--O starts running a fever Saturday afternoon. I'm not really worried about it. I give her Motrin and she sleeps for 5 hours. It comes back Sunday morning. I'm still not really worried about it. She wakes up Monday morning with the fever but on top of that pink eye and sores and swelling in her mouth. We go to the Dr. She has a strep-like virus. Which means antibiotics won't help. We get eye drops for the pink eye. We have to keep giving her Motrin for her throat. I am just hoping that the other 2 kids don't get it as the Dr. said she is contagious. There are other things that I can't/won't say on here. Meh. I'm done. I've had enough for one month. I know that things could be worse--I really do know that. I am blessed and loved. I guess I needed to remind myself of that.

22 comments:

Kristina P. said...

Oh, Jillene, you have had so much on your plate! I hope your uncle and O feel better soon.

The Blonde Duck said...

You poor thing! You need some pie and a hug. I'm stressed just from reading about it!

Sandy said...

I'm so sorry hon! I am praying that brighter days are coming soon! ((hugs))

Unknown said...

Wow Sweetie! You really do have alot on your plate right now. You will get through it though...you always have such a great attitude. Hugs to you my blog friend.

bingham 5 said...

My daughter has had that strep like thing 2 times! Mix child dosage of Benadryl and same amount of plain Malox together and have her swish and swallow - it will coat her throat and help ease the pain.
Hope things get better soon!

Sheri, RN said...

Sounds like a huge month! Hopefully next month will be much less stressful for you and the family. :)

::hugs::

Tonya said...

Sorry that you are having a tough time Jillene!!! I hope your daughter is over her illness soon and nobody else in your family gets it! That's stressfull enough, but add in the other stuff and UGH!!! We've been stressed around here too, but I try to embrace the challenges because there is not much I can do to change the situation, and without our challenges, life would be pretty boring...albeit somewhat easier..LOL

Kristen said...

Well, the good news is that it is over and you survived right? You are a strong woman and look at all of the things that you were able to go through and now you are stronger. You should book a ticket to Disneyland to reward yourself...oh, wait you already did (I'm trying to help you think happy thoughts- love you)

Bonnie the Boss said...

Just because you know it could be worse doesn't mean you aren't done for this month!!! Hang in there! you are awesome!

Me (aka Danielle) said...

Oh dear! I am so very sorry! I hope things brighten for you!!

Jules AF said...

Life needs to get better for you! I'm sorry!

Vanessa said...

CRAP! I hope it is smooth sailing from here on out!

Wendyburd1 said...

Oh my gosh, I am so sorry about your uncle, and what a way to find out! But I guess thank goodness for Facebook too because you might not have found out as early as you did! I hope he gets better ASAP!!

Paige said...

hang in there!

Jillybean said...

I hope that O gets feeling better and that things get brighter for you.

Country Mouse, City Mouse said...

Thinking of you and sending good thoughts your way.

xox

Devri said...

OH sorry to hear you are so stressed out. Hope the wheel turns in a good direction soon. big ol' hug for you

The Blonde Duck said...

I can't imagine a happier existance than one with twirling little girls. Maybe twirling would help your stress.

Lara Neves said...

Oh man, that is a lot to be dealing with! I'm so sorry about your uncle, and I wish him a quick recovery. Scary.

My Chloe has the same crap that O seems to have. It is no fun, I hear you on that!

Mary said...

Here's hoping things start to slow down and your parents come home safe and sound!

Lee said...

I am so so sorry! I hope things start to level out and get easier for you. :(

Unknown said...

Man, girl, I am sorry- you have a lot going on right now! I hope things pick up.
Plan a night away with your hubby if you can!

BTW- I got released from Primary Prez...it has been 3 1/2 years in that calling, and I feel so weird! I am still adjusting to the change. Anyway...
*hugs* and bye!